We brought a group of 17 students to the PRSSA National Conference all the way from Utah Valley University.  During the conference we had the chance to listen to amazing presenters, and to network with peers and future colleagues.  An unintended fringe benefit was the unofficial study of small group dynamics that took place during our week-long visit to Orlando.

Frequently the need to make decisions regarding where to get food or how to spend our free time were met with statements such as “I don’t care”, or “I’m OK with wherever”.  However there were always dominant voices that eventually seemed to steer the direction of the group.  It’s been said that you can’t please everyone and so inevitably complaints would arise regarding the plans that got made.

My observation from our tiny paradigm of humanity is that if you let others speak for you, you lose the right to complain about what is said.

I recognize that mild apathy and casual indifference are often times avoidance techniques for decision making.  Fear that a decision might be seen as unpopular can stifle a group and force inaction.  So here is to the risk takers and the decision makers, those willing to risk ridicule in order to procure action.  For those of you letting others do the talking now is your time to rise up and bring your voice.  Whether your comments are welcome or not, whether you sway a decision or not, your place will no longer be among those too scared to voice their thoughts yet willing to complain about what is said for them.